You can have safer sex but there is no such thing as “safe sex”. It’s so scary that some STIs (e.g. HSV, HPV, HIV) may not show any symptoms and people could unknowingly pass on a disease. Then there’s also the risk of getting knocked up if the birth control methods failed. When I think of the risks associated with sex, it almost makes me not want to have sex ever again. *shudders*
A guy who says he’s single may not be single.. as I found out with Mr. Grey AND Ted. The only reason that I could possibly think of is that they’re trying to minimise the risk of me contacting their respective partners if things go south. The only two scenario that would ever make me angry enough to do that are: a) contracting STI from them or b) they harmed me in any way.
Always trust your intuition. A close friend went for a rendezvous with a guy she met on KIK (the messenger app) recently and was left $500 poorer. What happened was the guy went through her purse and stole her debit cards details while she was using the bathroom. She told me that just before she left her house, she had this instinct to leave her valuables, i.e. her very expensive watch and an everyday jewellery, at home. On hindsight, she should have trusted her instinct that this guy was bad news. I’m just so glad that she was not physically harmed. Hopefully she’ll be able to recover the money from the bank.
MELBOURNE SUGAR 